My sweet grandma passed away on December 18, 2011 just before 3:00 pm with her family gathered all around her. She was 92 years old and had lived a long, healthy, happy life, but it was definitely her time to go and meet my grandpa. There were plenty of tears, but over all this has been an extremely happy and peaceful passing. I know it is because we all know in our hearts that her departure from this life is not really goodbye. She is finally happy and free from pain, all her questions answered at last, and we will all be together again. I don't know if I've ever had a stronger testimony of the plan of salvation than I have had born witness to me at this time. Death is not a sad thing - it is a happy thing. We will always miss those we love, but we are so glad that they are in a better place that sadness cannot prevail. It is a beautiful thing, and one of the many reasons I can testify this gospel is true.
Grandkids and great-grandkids at Grandma's 92 birthday party, June 26, 2011.
One of the many blessings to have come out of this weekend is the opportunity I have had to watch my family come together from all corners of the country to be a part of this moment and to say goodbye. Everyone is kind, loving, patient, and willing to help one another. For this moment there will be no squabbles or thoughtless words. Just the honest love we have always have for each other, but sometimes don't show. I can't even remember the last time I got to see my mom together with all her siblings. It reminds me of when I get to be with all my siblings - I guess we're not so crazy after all!
Uncle Ken (Mom's twin), Mom, Uncle Bob (missing Aunt Jean). Note that the boys accidentally wore the same thing...they couldn't let it go all day. Neither could we.
My grandma was one of the sweetest, silliest, most stubborn, most opinionated, most loving, most devoted individuals I have known. I will always be grateful for the memories (sleepovers, iced oatmeal cookies, babysitting when Emily was born, driving the tuna boat, closing her eyes when she didn't want to listen because she'd already decided she was right, waving her hands, telling me to drive safely...) and lessons she gave (always dress nicely, her testimony of the gospel, the importance of tithing...). We love you and miss you grandma. Thank you for blessing our lives!